The status of women varies globally, and when a woman moves abroad alone, she may encounter different customs in various countries. How do you navigate these challenges and adapt to different situations? We address these issues in this article.
Should women move abroad alone?
Moving abroad alone as a woman can be as exciting as it is stressful. On the one hand, it presents a fantastic opportunity to explore new cultures, gain independence and potentially advance your career in a foreign country through a job offer. On the other hand, it can be a considerable risk, mainly due to possible cultural disparities and challenges faced by single women.
There is no universal answer as to whether moving abroad as a solo female expat is a good or bad idea, as it depends on individual circumstances and the chosen destination. Personal factors such as personality, motivations, adaptability to new cultures, desired location, and ability to handle criticism from acquaintances in the host country play a critical role in determining the suitability of such a move.
In which countries might single expat women face challenges?
Countries with deeply patriarchal cultures, such as Saudi Arabia or India, can present challenges regarding morality. In India, for example, women are often victims of rape, assault and other forms of violence, which can make things even more complicated for expat women. Similarly, Saudi Arabia’s strict Sharia-based laws impose strict regulations on women, including mandatory wearing of the abaya (although it is not required for expatriate women, especially in larger cities) and enforcing gender segregation in various public spheres. Consequently, single Saudi women face limitations in travel and employment opportunities. This could be a considerable obstacle to your relocation to such countries.
However, it is important to recognize that single expat women may face unsettling situations and unfamiliar norms even in Western countries. For example, in some regions of Germany, women may feel uncomfortable in male-dominated bar environments where customers may be loud and persistent. Similarly, in the UK, they may face challenges from “lad culture”, characterized by rude and sexist behavior towards women. Such situations are not limited to Europe; in some southern US states, such as in rural areas of Mississippi or Alabama, locals may have more traditional attitudes towards women, in contrast to life in larger, more progressive cities such as New York or Los Angeles.
However, it is important to note that these scenarios are not universal, and single female expats can have positive experiences in countries or regions often perceived negatively.
If you’re about to move abroad alone, navigating the cultural norms of your host country can be one of the most difficult challenges you’ll face. What matters most is your determination and preparation before leaving. Remember that nothing is impossible, especially with proper planning. For example, it’s wise to research local social norms, customs, and behavioral expectations, especially if the role of women differs from what you’re used to in your home country. Additionally, immersing yourself in the local language and culture can significantly help you integrate and adapt to local customs.
Here are some useful tips:
- Trust your instincts: it is one of your most valuable tools to avoid potentially risky situations. Don’t hesitate to leave if you feel uncomfortable in a particular environment or with certain people. Additionally, dress according to the cultural norms of your new country, avoiding clothing that may be considered too provocative and could attract unwanted attention or problems.
- Reach out to your local expat community or women’s groups for additional support: They can offer valuable advice and assistance when needed. Other expats who have spent more time in the country, especially other single women, have probably faced similar situations and can provide invaluable support and guidance when needed.
- Lastly, don’t hesitate to ask for help if you are struggling with culture shock or if you have difficulty understanding local customs: Professional organizations, local associations and, in certain situations, the police or your embassy can provide guidance and support.
In many cases, moving abroad alone is a rewarding adventure for women, regardless of the destination chosen, so don’t hesitate to take the leap. Remember that decisions are not final, and if the country does not meet your expectations, you are always free to move on.
